christina; 21; born and raised in hong kong; studying in new york; i'm a deeeelicious blend between east and west, a child and an adult, meek and bold, shy and obnoxious, lazy and motivated. but most of all, i am obsessive and emotional. 100% reblog tumblr, the fun part of my tumblr lies in the tags, where i vomit my feelings and let my fingers do the thinking.

my trifecta: ryan gosling, andrew garfield, tom felton
my lesbian crushes: emma watson, scarlett johansson

check out my (if you are so inclined) nsfw, intensely intimate personal blog where i have more fashion-y, arts-y things and where i write when i feel all these foreign things called emotions.

But women can never be careful enough, can we? If we take naked pictures of ourselves, we’re asking for it. If someone can manage to hack into our accounts, we’re asking for it. If we’re not wearing anti-rape nail polish, we’re asking for it. If we don’t take self-defence classes, we’re asking for it. If we get drunk, we’re asking for it. If our skirts are too short, we’re asking for it. If we pass out at a party, we’re asking for it. If we are not hyper-vigilant every single fucking second of every single fucking day, we are asking for it. Even when we are hyper-vigilant, we’re still asking for it. The fact that we exist is asking for it.

This is what rape culture looks like.

This is what misogyny looks like.


Ever notice how when justifying a child’s misbehavior no one ever says stuff like “girls will be girls” or “she’s a girl”, but the list of things a “young lady” can’t do is almost endless?

You learn from a young age that masculinity comes with freedom; femininity comes with restrictions.

Being a Slytherin is about knowing the time.
The time when you need to be brave.
The time when you need to be clever.
The time when you need to be nice.
Being a Slytherin is having all of these.

1. Because a woman brought into this world will inevitably be given pepper spray “just in case.”

2. Because by sixteen, a young girl knows how to avoid being sexually assaulted, while a boy of the same age does not fear sexual assault in the slightest.

3. Because a girl who mocks men is a bitch, and a boy who mocks women is joking.

4. Because a girl who has sex is a slut, and a boy who has sex is a man.

5. Because in a murder, the killer is at fault, but the blame of rape is often put on the victim.

6. Because we teach girls how not to get raped instead of teaching anyone simply not to rape.

7. Because a woman should put more clothes on if her outfit makes a man uncomfortable, because his self control is her responsibility.

8. Because feminists just need to chill out.

9. Because a 22 year old sex-obsessed virgin can murder 7 people, and the problem is that someone should’ve just slept with him.

10. Because not all men are predators, but yes, all women are prey.